It was a night out thatAmie Harwickwas looking forward to. The sex therapist, 38, had been invited to an adult industry awards show at the JW Marriott in Los Angeles and was excited about taking photos on the red carpet.
“She was gorgeous,” says friend Hernando Chaves, a fellow L.A. sex therapist, who attended the Jan. 16 event with her. “She was so thrilled to be on the red carpet.”
But then, Chaves said, Harwick, the ex-fiancée ofPrice Is RighthostDrew Carey, had a chance encounter with her ex-boyfriendGareth Pursehouse, who was there to take photographs of the event.
“Initially, he reacted with anger and hostility and he was yelling and she kind of jumped into therapist mode,” Chaves alleges to PEOPLE.
But Harwick, he says, was “taught and trained to deescalate and she had to do her best to deescalate the moment.”
Chaves says after the initial red carpet encounter Pursehouse approached Harwick again at their table after the show.
Amie Harwick/ Instagram
“It was a very tense, very anxious and very fearful night for her in many respects,” he says, adding, “I’m sure it was one of the most difficult nights of her life.”
The software developer and photographer is being held in Los Angeles County Jail with no bail.
Drew Carey and Amie Harwick.Instagram
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Investigators have not commented publicly on a possible motive for the killing, but Harwick had sought two protective orders years earlier against Pursehouse alleging threatening behavior, which two friends characterized as “stalking” to PEOPLE. Harwick was granted a protective order in 2011, which expired 2015.
Gareth Pursehouse.YouTube
The coroner said Tuesday that Harwickdied of blunt force injuriesto her head and torso. There was also evidence of manual strangulation.
Pursehouse’s attorney, public defender Patrick Hare, did not return PEOPLE’s call for comment.
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source: people.com
